Their husband sexting someone else?? 

Been there done that. 

Nope. 

HMDT- how did you handle/deal with it? 

Had a big blow up fight. Then shrugged it off.. not like they where actually screwing.. just flirting and sexy photos 

with mine it was emails...had a huge fight...been a year..still not over it, but I'm trying to forgive and completely know that if it happens again that it's on me for giving him another chance. He's decided that he'd rather keep me than lose me so he's been trying to make up for it. Good luck. 

;) break his hand

I would flip out!!! He's not physically doing anything (or so he says) but it's still disrespecting his wife. 

I couldn't handle it.. It would piss me off to no end.
I don't know how any wife forgives something like that. 

I would kick his phone so far up his hind end, it would have to be surgically removed. 

Been there... with his ex who he was with for a long time.
I told him flat out, if he EVER does it again... I'm leaving and taking our son. 

I went through this too. When I was pregnant with our son, and my husband would leave to training stuff. Broke my heart. Been almost two years, and I still am not over it. 

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

My ex sent a nude spread eagle pic of herself to me ACCIDENTALLY. Text said "Hurry up i'm waiting, husband has duty tonight"

I texted back, "thanks for the pic, who are you waiting for?" She about died...lol Anyhow, that was icing on the cake things had been building for awhile.

I kicked her to the curb, the guy ended up back in jail on a parole violation, she's quite bitter and miserable and i'm happy and content.

Karma can be so awesome sometimes! LOL 

Karma can be so awesome sometimes! LOL

Lol yes, yes it can.

I should mention I caught my ex husband doing this. We're divorced. His life sucks, I hear. 

Nope, my husband respects me and our marriage more than that. He also knows I would walk out the door and take our daughter with me, and never look back! 

Nope, my husband respects me and our marriage more than that. He also knows I would walk out the door and take our daughter with me, and never look back!

Ditto on my current husband. The ex was a complete fail at life. I've also learned to not tolerate any of the bs. If they'll do they, they'll actually have sex with someone else. 

My husband doesn't know what sexting is. 

Why is anyone looking at their spouse's phone? 

Why is anyone looking at their spouse's phone?

I agree with this. The only reason I found out about my ex was because I swiped his phone to take to the AT&T store to buy him an iphone for his birthday. When the guy activated the iphone, all these messages popped up. I don't condone snooping through a spouses phone, but I was glad I found out. 

Why is anyone looking at their spouse's phone?

Usually I NEVER mess with his phone. My phone is mine and his, his...but it went off the other night late. We were in bed but I was still up. I thought it could be work related or something with family. A lot of stuff happening with family right now. Well, it turned out to be a text from another girl...not just a "hey" either...a rather explicit message. 

Usually I NEVER mess with his phone. My phone is mine and his, his...but it went off the other night late. We were in bed but I was still up. I thought it could be work related or something with family. A lot of stuff happening with family right now. Well, it turned out to be a text from another girl...not just a "hey" either...a rather explicit message.

Did you confront him? 

Vod Kaknockers --- 2 hours ago - quote - flag comment - hide comments
Nope, my husband respects me and our marriage more than that. He also knows I would walk out the door and take our daughter with me, and never look back! 


But he "lets you" go on PAD. I see how it works. You can have adult fun, but he can't? How do you justify it? That those people are just Internet personalities, not real people, and their pictures are "normal" expressions of sexuality between married/single people? 

Why is anyone looking at their spouse's phone?

We dont do this. The only time I would look through his phone is if i had a suspicion like someone calling him in the middle of the night etc. 

I did confront him...its still unresolved. 

I did confront him...its still unresolved.

What was his response? 

I find it ironic that a couple of the people on this thread have a problem with sexting, but not talking dirty and sharing pics via the internet with total strangers on CPAD. What's the difference? 

talking dirty and sharing pics via the internet with total strangers on CPAD. What's the difference? 

I think that's the same thing as sexting, just in a different way. 

I think that's the same thing as sexting, just in a different way.

So do I, so it's a little hypocritical in my opinion to complain about sexting, not the OP by the way. 

Not him, he's a prude when it comes to something that might get forwarded ;-) 

DocsWife --- 57 min ago - quote - flag comment - hide comments
I find it ironic that a couple of the people on this thread have a problem with sexting, but not talking dirty and sharing pics via the internet with total strangers on CPAD. What's the difference? 

Id never share a nude photo EVER...but I can say I don't mind the other site...and my husband reads also. He's the love of my life, I'd never betray him. I trust him also....I can honestly say he's never cheated, but I'm sure it has nothing to do with me...he has pretty high standards & I don't think he could live with himself after something like that. 

YEPPP!! I moved out over it...it was sexting, sex-mailing, AND photos...with numerous girls.

Its hard to get over. Mainly because when I found out and asked him (gave him a chance to be honest) he lied straight to my face about it. So trust has been an issue with us since then.