i have been gettin harassed from a girl i met last month. idk what i did to her but she has been getting my friends involved and i really dont know what to do. i havent said anything to her i have been staying away from her. and yes it does sound like high school games thats why i havent done anything. im just getting tired of it. im 26 weeks pregnant and getting stressed. please any advice on what to do would be nice 

How is she harassing you? Is it police repor worthy or just her acting stupid? What about it can you not just ignore? 

?? What is she doing to you. Must bother you alot.... 

i have had PMO called on me, Housing got a fake work order and there are only 2 females that know my husbands name and athorized them to walk in to our house, i wasnt dressed for them to come in the house and the girl has been going around saying i've been sleeping with a friends husband. and i have talked to housing my husband and i have to file a report on it. 

when she called PMO on me she stated that i let my son run around in the street and i wasnt letting him in the house. I dnt have a son yet im pregnant with ours 

How do you know she was the one who called PMO?
So she went into the housing office and gave them your house info and husbands info to go into your house to do what? Fix something? and they just walked in? 

How do you know she was the one who called PMO?

she posted on facebook about it.

So she went into the housing office and gave them your house info and husbands info to go into your house to do what? Fix something? and they just walked in?

no you can call in repairs for housing to do and u can just tell them they have the right to go in the house or not. 

so are you sleeping with a friend husband??....jk . 

And she is doing all this for no reason? 

@ RUserious no
@ AussieGirl pretty much, i think she is mad because i stopped giving her food for free and stopped helping her because she just uses me 

Sorry to hear, she sounds cray 

A few people in lurk mode, given the right information, would do something such as this to get their kicks. I know a few on here who are currently doing such to others :) Go and ask them why after 5 years they still hang on hahah. 

pretty much, i think she is mad because i stopped giving her food for free and stopped helping her because she just uses me 
Well there goes the reason! ;) 

I have a friend who could totally relate to your situation (actually I think hers was worse). While stationed in Hawaii, as soon as her husband left for deployment on his ship this woman whom she thought was a friend started spreading rumors that my friend was trying to sleep with her husband (not true), was pregnant again (kinda hard since she just had a baby and her husband just left for his deployment) as well as called child services and lied to them saying my friend was starving her children! Instead of investigating first, child services just took the kids away. Heck, my friend had no idea anything was wrong until her oldest two didn't come home from school (child services snagged them at the elementary school). Once all 4 kids were taken, they were put into different foster homes, and she was given only supervised visitation rights. No one would help her get the kids back until her husband returned from deployment (which lasted a year). She missed her youngest baby's first words, first steps, first Thanksgiving, First Christmas, and first birthday!
Thankfully as soon as her husband got home they went to court, and the judge said the whole situation was unjustified and ruled the children return to their parents. Sadly the system will only one kid come home at a time, with a month in between the kids coming home. As soon as all the kids were home they put in for a transfer off the island to get away from the crazy woman who ruined their lives.

Moral of this story, your situation is no where near as bad as what my friend had, and she was able to get through it. You'll survive this, and I'm sure your baby will be born healthy. Some people are just crazy, and sadly sometimes you just have to deal with the crazy people! 

Haha CD, back in the good old days it would be posted all over the UG. Some people just have no life and life to make others miserable. 

@BlueBettas i dnt want it to get that far my husband and i are only here for a few more months. what makes me scared is the fact that im the only one at home during the day and idk what else she will try she maybe one of those crazy ladies that cut my baby out and say its her cuz she likes my husband and thinks he is hot 

That's insane. I'm sorry. :( I would take screen shots of what she posted on fb and give into them for the reports to the police. 

im not a friend on her facebook any more cuz i dnt want anything to do with her. but i should have when i was her friend. 

This type of situation is one reason why I told my husband that there would be no way I would ever live on base. We were "friends" with a couple and their five kids. They were always having money issues and asking us for money (sometimes up to $500) we lent them cash once ($200) and learned our lesson. The next week he had a new motorcycle part (an aftermarket part that was not necessary). We had bought there kids clothes and were told they would pay us back on payday (in two days) and we never were. At that time we were willing to help since we both worked, but realized we were just getting taken advantage of. So we stopped talking to them. The couple split and now the wife moved. Can you believe she had the nerve to again ask for cash from us? I learned my lesson the hard way about these type of women/families on base. 

Just because you live on base doesn't mean you are crazy and have money problems.

When I lived on base my screen had a crapy little lock on it but if I had it locked housing couldn't get in so if I were you I would keep that locked. I know mine wasn't that good but it's better then nothing. I would also try to not pay attention to her. If she does anything more that you can prove call PMO and report her. I would also file the report with housing and maybe say you don't want anyone coming into your house unless you let them in whether you (someone) gives the ok on the phone or not. 

I live on base and never had any of these problems. Its all about who you surround yourself with and if you let them take advantage of you. This kind of stuff you have to stomp out right away, let them know you arent to be messed with. If you act like a easy target you will become one. 

Perfect example of why we keep to ourselves...

I agree with puppylove, try the lock on the screen door if you have it! 

@Jersey Shore Chickie i cant drive due to health problems and so living on base so close to the hospital works out really good for us.
@puppylove my screen door doesnt lock its broke lol. but thank u. and we have a appointment to talk to housing 2moorow to see what they can do to get this taken care of because it doesnt just involve my family but another family aswell and all 3 of the families live in the same housing so they should do something....right? 

I would call housing and have them come out as soon as possible to fix that lock then.

Without "real" prove they isn't anything they can do to be honest. I don't mean to sound rude but right now it's kinda your word against hers. I hope things get better. 

@YouReallyThinkSo i found out being nice and helpin new families out isnt always the right thing to do but i found out the hard way. i just want everything to stop. we have already got my husbands command involved in the matter so if anything does happen then they know whats been goin on 

Yeah its a sad world when you cant be nice to people without them taking advantage and becoming psycho when you stop. Good luck. 

when the worker came to fix the light over my stove( that wasnt broke) he new i didnt know he was coming. yet on the work order i was the one that had called. i never call housing because they never come to the house when i call but when we went and talked to housing that would be one thing the housing would look down on them because only 2 women that live this housing know my husband one being my friend and the other being that girl. 

why is central deluz letting lcpl and pfc live here without having kids when we moved here they only let u move in if u were NCO and up or had a kid 

I know when my husband and I PCSed housing was letting different racks live in higher housing areas to get them to move onto base. I think base housing would rather have the house rented out to a lower ranker family then not have anyone live in it at all. 

I hate when people are like "this is why I don't live one base" crap like this can happen anywhere. Not necessarily with the housing but other stupid stuff. I swear some people view living on base like living in the ghetto.