Seriously my neighbors fight every single day and night in the bedroom loud and clear for me to hear. Tonight we have a drunk cheating wife (allegedly) I wonder how long this one will last. Tired of having to sleep on my couch or the other room in order to get sleep!! 

Call PMO/police... 

Yeah I have thought about doing so. He left for work I think who knows so we shall see how it goes when he gets home. I have been tempted to just bang on the wall and be like STFU! 

Id bang on the wall! Or go knock on the door and let them know you can hear them and ask if they can please keep it down. 

Yeah thats about to happen she is screaming at the top of her lungs right now and he is like WTF is wrong with you. Im WAY WAY WAY over this shit! 

Call PMO, make sure you tell them it's an all the time thing and ask that his command be notified (to get them in counseling or something.) 

Why would people try to involve his command? 

(to get them in counseling or something.)

I don't think forcing them into counseling would work. They have to want to fix it. 

Why would people try to involve his command? 
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I don't understand why the command is ever involved. People who do that irritate me. 

Why would people try to involve his command?
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I don't understand why the command is ever involved. People who do that irritate me.

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I don't live on base but they have gotten quiet again if I hear it again I will walk over there and tell him to please keep it down because I am tired of hearing every single fight that goes on. I can honestly tell them every fight they have had in the past 2 months. Definitely not going to get him in trouble with his command Hell in all honesty Im on his side lol bitch is crazy from what I have heard she has caused the fights as well from what I have heard. 

like with this latest fight He stayed home last night and watched the kid while she went out and cheated then came home and lied to him before finally confessing and today she is screaming like a banshee while he is asking WTF is wrong with you talk to me. So yeah no reason to get him in trouble I feel sorry for the guy but still Im tired of hearing it all. 

Sounds like a winner. 

Sounds like a winner. 

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A few years ago when I lived on base my neighbor had two guys arrive at her house in the evening (her husband was deployed). About 10 mins later her bedroom (with a shared wall to mine) started to get very noisy. A good bang on the wall was all that was needed. 

I say Command. He won't be in trouble, if SHE is the problem! You can attest to that, that's even better.

He needs help, and is either unwilling or unable to get it. If she's cheating, and they live on base, he's the one who HAS options.

Especially if she's cheating with another service member. 

How does his command have ANYTHING to do with his marriage?

He knows he has options. He should not be forced upon them.

And I'm sure his command doesn't want to get involved either. 

PMO gets called to a domestic, it hits the blotter which is emailed to every command. The command is going to find out if she calls anyway.

He's a Marine, if the home front is not stable it has EVERYTHING to do with his job. It affects his family care plan, whether or not he should be deployable....

You would be surprised at how many Marines and spouses I talk to that have NO idea of free resources available to them outside of the commands knowledge. They sit in the boring meetings designed to educate them texting on their phones, or napping, not paying attention.

Personally, I know Dh would soooo much rather one of his Marines walked into his office and asked for help vs. those 3 am phone calls from a SNCO that somebody in the command has been arrested for any of a thousand things that never end well. 

PMO gets called to a domestic, it hits the blotter which is emailed to every command. The command is going to find out if she calls anyway.

If PMO gets called it hits the blotter no matter what the reason.

But she said they don't live on base so that wouldn't happen anyway. 

LOL, too bad they don't live out here then, JPD has an a share information agreement with base PMO.

If I even get a speeding ticket in town, Dh's command gets notified!