I just discovered this site but the situation happened about a month ago and I've been wanting to share it this whole time.
One early morning my husband and I were going to a doctor appointment together and we decided to stop by dunkin doughnuts to grab coffees. As we pulled into the parking lot at the furthest end we saw a car parked with a male marine in the passenger seat and a civilian female on top of him kissing. I thought it was strange but my instincts were right when we walked out of the store and the same guy was in a different car a few spaces down from us and the girl was still in her car all the way at then end of the lot. As we drove away I noticed them driving off in different directions. Now it might just be me, but my husband and I don't meet up (in separate cars) in empty parking lots to make out and then drive off in opposite directions. Even my husband asked me if I "noticed those cheaters". It was very clear what they were doing.
Many spouses are clueless to the signs but sometimes there are no signs at all. It bothers me to see such a poor example of a marine. If your husband is suddenly sneaking off at strange hours of the morning or night, start asking questions and don't accept pathetic answers! 

Next Time grab the lp# in case his wife reads the posts on here. 

I was so taken back by it. But if I see something like that again I will. 

My hubs and I meet up often. He's busy on the road with work and what not. So, if I'm driving to a target, and call him and he's in the area or knows he will be back in the area in an hour or so. I will take extra time at target, and plan a meet up.

He will hop from his car into mine 90% of the time- we will talk (make out optional depending on our mood, if kids are with me or not. W*) He has even hopped in my car driven a couple of blocks to a restaurant, and dropped back off. We've kind of always done this if we have the opportunity. I guess we are weird. Sometimes the encounters last 1 minute sometimes 20 minutes, sometimes equal to a lunch date. 

I seen something like this too at the corner store (wire mt/ash). They left in different cars and he went back to South Mesa 1 west housing. I noticed them when I went into the store and when I came out they were going their separate ways kissing good bye out of the car, he and I left at the same time going back to the same housing area. 

The plot thickens 

Sometimes I wonder if my husband would have any time to cheat on me, but the truth of it is he wouldn't have the energy. He is nasty, dirty at work, no woman would touch him and he drops right off to sleep when he gets home and has to be back at 5am again the next morning (I know because I get the texts from his SSGT). It's the wives who are the major cheaters here. We are the ones who are stuck at home and only have kids to talk to and our lives are dictated according to our husband's career. So, get a little attention from someone else going through a hard marriage or is unattached and bored... it is a whole lot easier to believe the majority of cheaters are the stay-at-home spouses, which are mostly the wives. 

It's all scandalous 

If there's a will, there's a way.


It's the wives who are the major cheaters here.We are the ones who are stuck at home and only have kids to talk to and our lives are dictated according to our husband's career.

That's a cop out and a really poor excuse. There are many ways to make adult contact without jeopardizing a marriage.

Just because a spouse may not be physically present, doesn't mean they can't be there emotionally, especially in this age of technology. 

That's a cop out and a really poor excuse. There are many ways to make adult contact without jeopardizing a marriage.

Agree 

Oooooooorrrrrrr you can mind your business and go along your merry way. How do you know they aren't swingers, or single parents that don't want to bring their bf/gf around their kids until it's "serious" or maybe kinky role players? Whatever it is, it's none of your business. For those that think your husband doesn't "have the energy" to cheat; if we can find the energy to hump 5-7-9 etc miles through the hills of Camp Pendleton carrying 80-100 lbs of gear, we can gather the energy to give some luckily little lady the best 5 minutes of her life. 

hump 5-7-9 etc miles through the hills of Camp Pendleton carrying 80-100 lbs of gear, we can gather the energy to give some luckily little lady the best 5 minutes of her life. 

HAHAHA- this literally made me laugh!

and I'm on the same page it's funny that someone can see 5 minutes of someones life and build a crazy story around it.

I would like to add "my husband is nasty dirty after work" is a weird reason someone wouldn't be interested. I love the smell of hard work (not body odor) but jet fuel mixed with sweat with pheromones in the air- gets me to a good spot. My hubs doesn't look sexier than when he first walks in the door after a day of hard work.

and I know other ladies that tend to agree. 

I would like to add "my husband is nasty dirty after work" is a weird reason someone wouldn't be interested. I love the smell of hard work (not body odor) but jet fuel mixed with sweat with pheromones in the air- gets me to a good spot. My hubs doesn't look sexier than when he first walks in the door after a day of hard work.
Yeah, but would you really sleep with him before he showers? I agree the smell turns me on but I usually say once the kids are asleep, "I'm going to go take a nice warm soapy shower. Want to join me?" He knows I won't touch him unless he cleans up. 

I dated firefighters before my husband (not on purpose but my dad was a ff so it was the crowd I ran with) and I would totally jump them after a house fire. mmmm that smell. 

I have no issues with it. 

Oooooooorrrrrrr you can mind your business and go along your merry way. How do you know they aren't swingers, or single parents that don't want to bring their bf/gf around their kids until it's "serious" or maybe kinky role players? Whatever it is, it's none of your business. For those that think your husband doesn't "have the energy" to cheat; if we can find the energy to hump 5-7-9 etc miles through the hills of Camp Pendleton carrying 80-100 lbs of gear, we can gather the energy to give some luckily little lady the best 5 minutes of her life.


This is hilarious... And I would say accurate! You'd be surprised the MANY different ways this situation could have been! 

This is Comical..... I go on here looking to see when they are going to do this whole Christmas tree ordeal and i see this cheating post... LOL you guys have all fallen into the Dependesorus Stage... your Life doesn't have to revolve around your husband... I work My Husband works... Stop talking about other people... Apparently your worried about your own relationship wondering if He is cheating or she is cheating to actually POSt Something in regards to other people ... To Other STRANGERS.... you are the one needy and in Need of attention from someone else Via Male or Female... Go do something productive 

Apparently you need to find something productive to do if you bumped a thread that hasn't seen the light of day for 12 days.

You and your husband both work, yet you need to find out about a FREE tree? 

Apparently you need to find something productive to do if you bumped a thread that hasn't seen the light of day for 12 days
This 

You and your husband both work, yet you need to find out about a FREE tree?

And this.