For a little over a week now every time my daugther wakes up from her naps she's been out of control! Screaming, crying, kicking, hitting and everything else you can think of. I haven't changed anything in her routine and she's getting plenty of sleep. I always send her back to her room but she comes right back out worst. It's been almost 2 hours of her screaming, she wants to go to my husbands work and I said no. She keeps biting and hitting me and her little brother. To add to it all she dumped the trash can! I sent her to her room where I can hear her dumping/throwing all her stuff around. I don't know what else to do, I've tried everything from every parenting book I can find. 

How old is she? 

How old is she?

Get Dare to Disipline by james dobsin 

Is she maybe getting sick? Tugging at her ears? Signs of a cold?

How old is she? 

james dobsin

Dobson

Just to make it easier to find for her 

She's 2 and she just got done taking medicine for an ear infection. She doesn't seem sick, but she did tell me this morning her stomach hurt. I think that was because last night I told my husband to get me some Sprite from the store because mine hurt.

Another question I have, how long do you think is to long to make her stay in her room? She's been in there a while but she hasn't calmed down. I keep going in there to check on her but it's making things worst. 

I'm going to look for this book now 

I keep going in there to check on her but it's making things worst.

You may want to invest in a video monitor.

I don't really have any advice for you though, I'm sorry.

I'm sure plenty of parents will though. Good luck! 

Get Dare to Disipline by james dobsin
great book!
i dont have that one any more but i have other great books if ur close to me u can have them my oldest went threw tons of behaviors growing up and they were all my bibles (pm if u want them) 

we took a class a while back and tgey gave us the incredible years its a trouble shoting guide type book for ages 2-8. its has tons of positive ways to break naughty behavior like biting and stuff. it helped us greatly 

Have her ears re-checked.

If they are bothering her, it could be causing her to act out.

Earaches are horrible for little ones who can't quite let you know what exactly hurts... 

I second getting her ears looked at again. If she still has an ear infection that can make her miserable and very irritable. 

i dont have that one any more but i have other great books if ur close to me u can have them my oldest went threw tons of behaviors growing up and they were all my bibles (pm if u want them)

I would love them! I like to read as much as I can on different parenting styles, I live in Fallbrook but I go to base often. 

She went in at the end of last week to get her staples out and I had them check her ears. They said she they was fine, but she does have hearing issues and they say that causes a lot of ear infections. 

I second getting her ears looked at again. If she still has an ear infection that can make her miserable and very irritable.
x3 sry i dint see the pt about ear infections till i re read. my kids never really had them but my friends did and she said its no fun at alll. 

I would love them! I like to read as much as I can on different parenting styles, I live in Fallbrook but I go to base often.
im in stuart mesa so next time ur over here shoot me a pm and u can grab them 

My kids had ear infection before and they never act like that,thats weird..... 

Terrible twos and children with hearing problems usually act more cause they are so frustrated. My son does the same but not the extent. No biting or hitting but I have dealt with children who have speech and hearing problems and this is common. I would call her pediatrician and she can refer to someone to help. 

im in stuart mesa so next time ur over here shoot me a pm and u can grab them

Thank you, I like to shop over there at least once a month (to get all my meat for cheaper). I'll pm you next time we go.

I'm going to try to get her an appointment on Monday for her behavior, I'm going to ask them to check her ears. She's a rituals kid and I've been going round and round trying to get her in with a therapist (some doctors are saying she can't be it doesn't start that young and other doctors are saying they can). 

sounds like my daughter. I have been pretty patient with her, but i gave her a spanking the other day and shes been good since. btw i said spaking not beating lol, i know some parents are against it, its not something i do often but it seemed to work. she hasn't been bitting and has over all changed her attitude. shes only two but she sure is a wild one . 

(some doctors are saying she can't be it doesn't start that young and other doctors are saying they can).

my son was diagnosed with adhd and odd at age 3 it varies by drs 

sounds like my daughter. I have been pretty patient with her, but i gave her a spanking the other day and shes been good since

Today is the first time in all my Mommy years that I've EVER considered spanking. Once she dumped my trash can a fire went off in me! I decided not to, I was HEATED and I didn't want to take it to far so back in her room she went. Please don't take me saying "take it to far" the wrong way I would NEVER hurt my kids, but my father was a very abusive man and my biggest fear is if I ever was to spank I would turn into him. 

I didn't read all the comments, so sorry if it has been said, but we do timeouts with our daughter, she is 2. When she starts doing what you described we pull out her timeout chair, yes, she starts screaming and crying and saying no, but she goes and sits. We set the timer to 2 mins, if she gets up we say nothing to her but take her by the hand and put her back in her chair, and reset the timer. 

you either got 2 options totally ignore them as in if they are crying for 24 hrs then let them until they get it out of their system. I mean dont deny them food or anything crazy but heck if my kids throw a fit like that then they can stay in the room up to 4 hours. as long as you still here they crying then you know they are ok.
Or option 2 which is spank but you cant just swat at the butt, if you are going to spank them better make it worth it and let them know to be scared of that hand from now on.
seeing she's only 2 i would just leave them in the room, i didnt fully spank my kids until they were 4. 

Another great book, The Happiest Toddler on the Block. Tons of great information in it. 

Another great book, The Happiest Toddler on the Block. Tons of great information in it.

I have that book, I use a lot of the advice they give. 

It could be Night Terrors.

Night Terrors Info 

[i]Or option 2 which is spank but you cant just swat at the butt, if you are going to spank them better make it worth it and let them know to be scared of that hand from now on.
seeing she's only 2 i would just leave them in the room, i didnt fully spank my kids until they were 4. 


I totally agree...