yes you were b/c you keep saying hypothetically and oh JIC anyone needs this info hinting someone needed it you keep bringing their situation up trying to find a loophole so it wont be locked/deleted yet your not respecting that FAMILY if they wanted help they would ask! leave it alone!
dont delete my thread... because now i dont care to help, because now im pissed off.
I didn't delete your thread. Someone else did because they were asked to.
Truthfully I have NO idea what is going on, I also think that people are awesome for wanting to help people out who need it. However, if there is a family going through something they might not want their situation being discussed whether it is to be helpful, or not.
Just put yourself in someone elses shoes for once and stop trying to make this about you.
Everyone reacts & deals with tragedy in a different way. There is no way you would know how you would deal. Even if you have before Bc every situation is different. I'm not sure what all we are talking about. But in my experience with death & things of that nature you just have to go with what the family wants.
Something happened, People want to help, those affected supposedly dont want help...
That is really kind of you. I know that people have huge hearts and truly just want to be helpful. In this situation, what would be most helpful is to not cause an issue over it. There are other ways to be helpful to people rather than just with physical items.
That's a pretty rude way to try and explain what is going on. No one said the family doesn't want help from those who have offered. Simply respect their privacy and keep the drama out of it.
Thats all I knew that was going on. I went to a thread started by Sporking about helping "A Family". No specifics were given as to who what when where why. Then all of the sudden the topic is deleted to "respect the families wishes"...