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a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

hi everyone am having a hard time right now, my husband have a son he is 4 years old he is living with us right now because his mother went through a hard time, but she is fine and she want him back, he is been living with us for over a year and i have a 10 months old baby with my husband..... i been taking care of everybody in this house by my self, but i want my husban to return his son with his mother because i am tired and i need to take a break from him...... i wanna be with my husband and baby for a while... is that bad? help me please i cant take it anymore 

DoctorDonna --- 6 years ago -

What exactly do you need help with? I cant quite get the issue...

You don't want to take care of another womans child, and you want your husband to take him back....

That sounds like you have the issue figured out. 

Abra --- 6 years ago -

SO you can't handle your step-son? Were you aware of ths child's existence (sp) before you married your husband? I am not judging but you sound Selfish. Does your husband want his son to leave>? 

Shakedabooty --- 6 years ago -

have u talked to ur husband? 

Scrappy --- 6 years ago -

This is something only a conversation with your husband can help. When you marry someone with children it is a package deal. 

a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

well he lye about having a baby and he told me about his son after i was in love..... i was 5 months pregnant when he brought him to the house without consulting me i took care of him, but i am tired of taking care of him i need a brake from him since he is not mine, but my husband don't want to take him back to his mom cuz he does not wanna pay childsupport 

Scrappy --- 6 years ago -

Wow. That doesn't even make sense. You spend way more on a child that lives with you than you would pay in cs. 

Abra --- 6 years ago -

but i am tired of taking care of him i need a brake from him since he is not mine, but my husband don't want to take him back to his mom cuz he does not wanna pay childsupport

Wow. poor child. 

Scrappy --- 6 years ago -


Wow. poor child. 


I agree 

Shakedabooty --- 6 years ago -

i agree, u married him knowing he had a kid, u kinda take the whole package. Need a break? get a sitter for the day 

a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

he told me that he will only be with us for a couple of months after his mom gets better, but she wants the child back......and he wont..... i know is his son but i live in this house too, and is his responsibility not mine 

Abra --- 6 years ago -

he is living with us right now because his mother went through a hard time, but she is fine and she want him back

Sounds like he'd be better off with his mom. IDK the whole situation but is she WANTS the child around b/c she loves him and wants to take care of him, suck it up and pay the money. The child deserves to be loved. 

Unbreakable --- 6 years ago -

well u knew he had a son when u married him right? Not only did u marry him u married everything that came along with him! you sound really selfish right now. 

PeggyHill --- 6 years ago -

I am not judging but you sound Selfish.

When you marry someone with children it is a package deal.

AGREED! 

YouReallyThinkSo --- 6 years ago -

but i am tired of taking care of him i need a brake from him since he is not mine,
You married his dad, so that makes you his step-mom. Your statements sound so selfish. 

Dorothy Mantooth --- 6 years ago -

i know is his son but i live in this house too, and is his responsibility not mine 

You married someone with a child. That child becomes your responsibility too. 

Shakedabooty --- 6 years ago -

and is his responsibility not mine 
wow what did you expect? its his son, 

a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

well is his son that he had with somebody else not me..... 

silver --- 6 years ago -

omg poor kid. I'm not trying to sound mean but you obviously don't want him around so is there resentment at home from you? My heart just breaks for this kid. I'm sure he knows how you feel since he lives with you. 

a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

and getting his custody withouteven talk to me about it 

Unbreakable --- 6 years ago -

well is his son that he had with somebody else not me...

You married him so u need to accept the fact that he has a son, remember his kids will always come before you! 

YouReallyThinkSo --- 6 years ago -

What about your child with him? You said you want time for yourself, what are you going to do with the baby? It sounds like you have some growing up to do and I feel so bad for both children. 

a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

i dont like him at all, he is mean and has bad habits 

Scrappy --- 6 years ago -

But u married him knowing he had a child with someone else so when you took him into your life that child was included. It is sad that you feel like this about a four year old child. That poor kid. Imagine how he must be feeling. 

Abra --- 6 years ago -

well is his son that he had with somebody else not me.....

You need some sense slapped into you. No one can make you love the child but you could've walked away from it all. You didn't and now the child is stuck in this whole mess. 

Shakedabooty --- 6 years ago -

well is his son that he had with somebody else not me..... 
what dont u get? U TOOK ON THE RESPONSIBILITY when ur married him. U take the whole package. What a step mom u turned out to be lol 

Dorothy Mantooth --- 6 years ago -

well is his son that he had with somebody else not me..... 

How would you feel if you got divorced and remarried and your second husband felt this way about your child?

Gah. So sad. I just wanna give your stepson a hug right now. 

Abra --- 6 years ago -

i dont like him at all, he is mean and has bad habits

Well if my step-mom didn't want me around, I'd be mean too. 

a3114812uu --- 6 years ago -

no i love my baby like crazy, he dont respect my opnions 

silver --- 6 years ago -

He's 4 and how long has be been living with you? 

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