Hey ladies.. so my husband and i have been married almost 2 years. We got married in Ohio and then i came out here a month later to live with him.Since i was not with in he was getting separation pay well he never told me this nor did he ever tell them i was here. I have been here almost 2 years and also had my son at the naval hospital. Needless to say uhm we now owe the military almost 6G because for almost 2 years now we have been getting about 250 extra pay. Im now freaking out because we have 2 children & we already have no money as is with bills and my husbands truck payment.
We were told that they would take 208 out of every pay check( on top of the 250 we were use to getting as well) well this paycheck they didnt just take the 208...they took the whole paycheck and now we are negative... i dont even know what to do and im so mad at my husband for thinking he could get away with this :( 

Navy relief. They can give you a loan. We had a similar issue with BAH. You also shpuld take finance classes to see where you can cut spending and save. 

We had the same thing happen to us six years ago. His entire first paycheck was held, and come to find out it was the exact same situation that you are going through.

What happened is the husband had to go to RPAC and get his pay set up to pay back a certain amount a month as an allotment. The reason why he didn't get his pay is because the entire sum went towards the entire balance he owes.

You can fix all of this through RPAC, but it doesn't change the fact that you will have to pay back the amount owed to them over all that time.

Still, if you are in a bind, Navy relief can help you with a loan to get you by if need be. 

You can always go to the YMCA and get gifts cards for gas and vouchers for the commissary depending on your husbands rank you might need a letter... Pm me and I can help ya out as much as I can. 

ohh so this is why u wanted to bash me about only giving u $30 haha.... well the best of luck to you... ps u couldve asked nicely and i could've worked out giving u more but u didnt wanna say anything so thats u own fault. 

ohh so this is why u wanted to bash me about only giving u $30 haha.... well the best of luck to you... ps u couldve asked nicely and i could've worked out giving u more but u didnt wanna say anything so thats u own fault. 

Thats sad. You should pay more for childcare! Jeez the lady that folds clothe at Walmart gets paid way more and does not have to watch a child.
1. interview the person who watches a child
2. make sure they have cpr first aid.
3. don't leave your child in a house that you felt uncomfortable leaving him in. (this is just stupid)
5. pick up your child on time. out of the goodness of your heart you paid her more? She worked for that money. She deserved more. 

exactly thats what im saying she coudl've asked me for more that what we AGREED on and from my understanding the post said it was 5 hrs i was 30 mins late boo hoo cry me a river. it was literally last min and my husband was he one who said we had no choice. 

husband was he one who said we had no choice

at the end of the day you did have a choice. Look after your son or leave him in a place you did not trust. 

u dont know my situation so wo are u to say this? 

u dont know my situation so wo are u to say this? 

because you did have a choice. you probably did not interview her. Or go to her house before hand. It was not an emergency because you believed you could work around your baby.yet you left him there. 

ohh so this is why u wanted to bash me about only giving u $30 haha
Happy mommy- that was seriously very rude im glad that you think my financial situation is funny. 

Naval Relief, FRO/ BN/ BN Spouse Club (If they have one) 

Oh the drama! 

This has happened to us twice! But because of deployments. With the last time they took all the check and wanted to take the next. My husband fixed it to where they gave the check back and now take payments to repay. 

I work at IPAC and no matter what. If you think your husband or yourself is getting over paid. Let someone know and its better to stop a land slide from starting. I have seen some bad cases of owing the governement money and I hate to see it happen. Money is no joke to the government. 

Obviously. he had been getting it since we got married so i had no idea we were not suppose to be getting that much money. 

My husband had something similiar happen to him, we weren't getting seperations pay but he did get over paid for something else and had to pay it back. They will fix it and give your check back and you'll have to start making payments but it does take about a week or so. Navy reilief is good, but you'll have to make a payment back to them each check and if your already living paycheck to paycheck that probably isn't the best idea. They are there to help though, so if its your only option I'd do it. Make sure you look at your husbands les from now on and compare what it says to what he gets paid, and if there's ever a difference call ipac and ask, just to be sure something like this never happens again. I hope it works out for you! Good luck! 

That is definitely no bueno. Can he find out if he can pay the amount back via allotment over a period of time?? I had a friend who was overpaid and he was allowed to pay the money back over a 2 year period. Obviously you won't be getting the $250 anymore but it won't be taken all at once. Best of luck to you!