I know it is sort of a taboo topic, but when talking to a friend about the topic, we got into this discussion. What did you lose your virginity, what about your daughters. I was 17, she was 16 and now that I have twin girls, I think 17 is tooo young still. What about you all? any input? 

I was 20. And now that I have a daughter, the only thing I want for her is to be genuinely in love with the person and to be safe about it. She's going to make her own choices, but I'm hoping I'll be the mom she can talk to and trust to take her to get birth control. And my husband says 30 sounds good for her haha. 

I was 15. And yeah waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too young. 

18, to my now-husband :) As for my daughter...neverrrr. j/k. Don't want to think about it lol 

I'm confused, you were 17 and your daughter was 16?

Anyway, I was 15. And it was with my now husband. I still think it was young, but I was in love. 

No she was 17 and her friend was 16. 

No she was 17 and her friend was 16.

Oh, haha thanks! 

I was 14.5 and while yes, I was young, I was in love with that person. I still speak to him every week - he's my best friend. Yes, my husband knows about it - in fact they are very good friends now.

If I every have children I would hope they at least wait a little bit longer and it be with someone special and that they are safe. 

I was 15 and although now I feel I was to young I dont regret it one bit. We were eachothers firsts and ended up staying together for almost three years. We still talk to one another and I will never forget my first love but I wish I was in love and was going to marry the one I had sex with. 

18, with my (now) husband. I wanted to be an "adult" and make sure I had thought it completely though. 

I was 16, and I would hope my daughter waits. If you ask my husband he says he wants her to wait until after he dies.

I wish that I had waited or at least not done it with the guy I did. About 2 months after we did, he became a COMPLETE and TOTAL ahole. To this day I can't stand him and if I ever ran into him again I would act as if I never knew him. 

23 to my husband, after we got married. 

This should've been a poll yo!! 

15, thought I was in love, might still have been together if I didnt move from Japan back to the states, we kept in touch though until he passed away 

Im still a virgin.
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Im still a virgin.

me too! 

3 days before my 16 birthday with my hubby. 

17 with my hubby 

18 and after I married him.

15, thought I was in love, might still have been together if I didnt move from Japan back to the states, we kept in touch though until he passed away 

omg how sad :( 

15 he was older but we were each others first... I was to young but I don't regret it we had been together over a year and stayed together on an off for over four years. We were friends up untill he decided to be an idiot and send a stupid text on my wedding night. 

16. to a loser. hahahha 

15 and married him! 

20.
I had told myself I never wanted to end up like 95% of my friends in high school who had sex with the seniors and the seniors never dated them.
I wanted to be in love and to never regret it.
I eventually just got sick of holding onto it and gave it away to someone not worth my time.
Then I met my husband so it wasn't too bad.
My daughter's requirements will be they need to be in love and at the very least 17. 

15. We were each others firsts and we are still together, happily married w/ 3 children. Been together for almost 11 yrs and next weekend is our 8 yr marriage anniversary! 

I was 19 to my ex. Go figure. And my sister was 15 and had my nephew. She has 5 kids now and she is only 33 and I have 2. Personally I say wait seriously to many people lose themselves due to peer pressure, etc. If you love someone make sure it is true feelings and not fooling yourself. 

when i was 19 to my husband 

When I was 16 to my best friend at the time. He was one of those that turned out to be an asshole though and it ruined our friendship. I hope that my kids would wait till they are responsible enough to handle any consequences. I freaked out when I did it for the first few times and took prego tests like crazy just to make sure lol. 

I was 16 and now I have 2 sons. I know my boys will probably not wait until they are married or anything like that. But I know from the time they are old enough to whenever they make that choice they will be prepared for whatever happens. 

I was 16, had a baby by 17. I have a daughter and she will wait a long, long time. I do not regret my daughter, but the timing. Luckily it worked out, I married her dad when she was 2. 

18. I don't think I was really ready at that point though.