Husband talked to this friend from before we even met she's in a different state w.e

i sent her a msg 2 nights ago telling her if she ever talked, text-ed or sent him any pictures i would post the half naked ones she already sent him all over the internet.
The question is not if i should divorce him, thats between me and him, but should I call her, since she didn't seem to get the earlier message and replied when i tested her by sending her a message and she replied back like the .... she is?

I need advice I am already devastated about this so please do not post any bad comments I dont need to feel worse. 

My advice would be to leave her alone. 

now explain to me why i should leave her alone when she keeps trying to break our marriage? 

I think you should talk to him. Hes the one you are married too. He owes you and your marriage respect. She doesnt you have no reason to talk to her. IMO 

Why just call her? Beat her asss. Trow meat on her lawn and tortillas on her car 


i would love to but she's far.. lucky her 

I say you need to talk to her, it would be diff if she didnt know he was married, then that would be his fault but with her being his friend she clearly knows 

Why just call her? Beat her asss. Trow meat on her lawn and tortillas on her roof 
I knew there was a reason I liked you! haha jk thats a little extreme lol 

when she keeps trying to break our marriage?

I retract my statement. Then you should talk to her let her know how you feel and cut all contact with her. But talk to your husband first if he doesnt have respect for your marriage then why stay with him?! 

now explain to me why i should leave her alone when she keeps trying to break our marriage?

The problem isn't her. It's your husband. 

I need advice

you should use her number and sign her up for as many timeshares, religious, donations, charities, surveys etc groups as you can find...... this would drive her crazy quicker than anything else 

Because its him, not her (and probably a little bit of you). He can easily stop it but he chooses not to. 

Guys Perpective.

Its not just here doing it, its both of them. If he chooses he wants her to stop contacting then he could take the steps to stop it. Change his number, block her on facebook. But if not theres really nothing you can do other than your personal decision on divorce. 

SHE KNOWS he is married and since day one told him she didnt like me. i have not met her for her to say that. She keeps talking to him 

you should use her number and sign her up for as much timeshares, religious, donations, charities, surveys etc groups as you can find...... this would drive her crazy quicker than anything else

LMAO! I'll keep this in mind just in case I ever need it. 

Because its him, not her (and probably a little bit of you). He can easily stop it but he chooses not to. 

def not him, I'm 100% satisfied with my wang! haha 

Tell him to tell her to back the eff off. IMO, if he loves you and has respect for you and your feelings then he will cut ties with this sloot. Then, do as you please to her. 

Tell him to tell her to back the eff off. IMO, if he loves you and has respect for you and your feelings then he will cut ties with this sloot. Then, do as you please to her. 


funny he left her a msg saying he was not going to talk to her again.. yet she replied when i sent a text from his cell.. 

Why wouldn't she reply? You sound like an insane wife. 

funny he left her a msg saying he was not going to talk to her again.. yet she replied when i sent a text from his cell..

Why wouldn't she? If SHE was the one that said she wasn't going to talk to him again, then she wouldn't answer.. but it was the other way around. 

Why wouldn't she reply? You sound like an insane wife. 


i hope this never happens to you. i wouldnt wish this to my worse enemy.
but thanks for no help 

i hope this never happens to you. i wouldnt wish this to my worse enemy.
but thanks for no help

It has happened to me, actually. There was a girl who constantly texted my husband once upon a time. I didn't handle it the way you are - neither did my husband. 

Uh ok. 

How come the women always go after the other woman? Your husband is obligated to you, therefore he should handle this. If he respects you, he would tell her "what's Up". It's you or her, who does he want to hurt? 

I didn't handle it the way you are - neither did my husband. 
then tell me how you did that is why im here for ADVICE i dont know what to do anymore 

Its not just here doing it, its both of them. If he chooses he wants her to stop contacting then he could take the steps to stop it. Change his number, block her on facebook. But if not theres really nothing you can do other than your personal decision on divorce. 


THIS is true. You shouldn't be making this choice for him, he should be making it himself. 

For the record, I think all wives are crazy now that I see what yall write on this site. 

then tell me how you did that is why im here for ADVICE i dont know what to do anymore

They knew each other before I met my husband. When he listed his Facebook status as "dating so and so" all of a sudden she started commenting on everything and texting all the time. It was like because he was taken, she was interested again. Fast forward to when we get married, she does the whole thing again. She sent him a few texts about him being married that bothered me.. I told him it bothered me. He texted her back and said, "I'm married. We've known each other for a long time and you've been a great friend to me but unless you are texting me or calling me as a friend, don't text or call." The end. She apologized to me later. 

I'd post the pictures :-)
But that's just me. LOL

Then sign her up with those things Bad Momma Said, and if my husband chose to still talk to her, I would divorce him.
Good luck with all of this 

They knew each other before I met my husband. When he listed his Facebook status as "dating so and so" all of a sudden she started commenting on everything and texting all the time. It was like because he was taken, she was interested again. Fast forward to when we get married, she does the whole thing again. She sent him a few texts about him being married that bothered me.. I told him it bothered me. He texted her back and said, "I'm married. We've known each other for a long time and you've been a great friend to me but unless you are texting me or calling me as a friend, don't text or call." The end. She apologized to me later. 

That's how it's done!