http://www.pendletonyardsales.com/item.jsp?itemId=14265511&src=SEARCH I emailed her to see what else she needs also told her what she needs to do to get help 

http://www.pendletonyardsales.com/item.jsp?itemId=14265511&src=SEARCH LINK! That is soo sad! I wish I still had the extra carseat but I did the trade in thing. Did you tell her about OSOA? 

no I forgot,... I told her about other base organizations and some out in town also who she can talk to in the command to get results if what shes saying is true...she needs him away from her 

This is why I hate scammers, because my first instinct when reading that is not to believe her. I hate that so many others lying and scheming has made me this cynical. Did you tell her to go to a Shelter? 

LOL....CPP I just made a post! I will lock it! 

my friend emailed her about the carseat. i really hope she gets as much help as possible. :( its very sad. 

Did you tell her to go to a Shelter Girl you know me..I gave her about 10 things she can do IF all this is true...I will see how see repsonds..if shes full of excuses I go no futher...I know what you mean about scammers.... BUT just in case its true..I want her to know about all the resources available 

Girl you know me..I gave her about 10 things she can do IF all this is true...I will see how see repsonds..if shes full of excuses I go no futher...I know what you mean about scammers.... BUT just in case its true..I want her to know about all the resources available Good on you! If she is legit, then she needs all the funds/items we can muster! The shelter's are awesome for more than material things though, they will have directions as to physical/emotional needs. 

Also...I told her ho wto go about talking to the command.... I would really hate to know that she told someone she is abused and has no money and the command saying oh well... 

Hmmm...I'm wondering how many ***** there could be on CP. What if someone from the command sees the name, tells the guy, and he beats the shiz out of her. She may want to change her post. 

CP if its not a scam let me know I can hook her up with some baby clothes from the store 

What if someone from the command sees the name, tells the guy, and he beats the shiz out of her. She may want to change her post. good point 

I also emailed her and told her I would take her to a shelter. I emailed her the number to the shelter in oceanside and directions on how to get there! I hope she takes everyones advice and leaves now and gets help. And I truly hope she is not Full of you know what and lying:( That would just be messed up! 

CP if its not a scam let me know I can hook her up with some baby clothes from the store no response yet..anyone else get a response? 

I'd be glad to help too-PM me when you hear something- 

Nope no response:( 

I feel horrible I just got rid of a car seat. I do understand that she needs help but I kinda think maybe that's a little tmi to post. this can also get him into so much trouble maybe kicked out and there won't be any money to give her. just a thought. I'm not sticking up for an abuser in any means I just thought maybe say I really need help don't want to get into all the details. 

just thought maybe say I really need help don't want to get into all the details. Then dont tell her you can drop someting off if thats what you want to do.. Some people feel safe posting TMI on line...we see it all the time 

where is she living at, or is she still in the house with the husband. her post is really vague. i would be willing to help her out too. if anybody hears pm me and let me know. 

She's reaching out for help- when there's abuse, there's no such thing as TMI. Too many women put up with it until it's too late- imo 

he's reaching out fo help- when there's abuse, there's no such thing as TMI. Too many women put up with it until it's too late- imo AMEN! I emailed her againand told her that for hers and her childs safety she needs to take down her name. Not her story. I wouldn't want him to really lose it and beat her until well... I won't elaborate! I let her know that she needs help and she needs professional help because too many women leave and then return because they have been abused so bad both physically and mentally that she really believes she can not live without him:( Sad but true! I have seen it happen with my own 2 eyes! 

I hope to god to replies to one of you soon because if he gets word of that post he is going to be really mad and thinking that really scares me also. 

CPP let me know how that turns out , and if you think it is truth , I am up here in San O and can scoop some together from friends and neibhoors if needed :) 

My guess.... is she posted the add for help earlier while he was at work. Now that he is home she is probably staying away from the computer so he won't check up on her! We will probaby hear somehting tomorrow! 

If anybody hears from her let me know, I would be willing to help 

CPP let me know how that turns out , and if you think it is truth , I am up here in San O and can scoop some together from friends and neibhoors if needed Ill check my email every few hrs... is she posted the add for help earlier while he was at work. Now that he is home she is probably staying away from the computer so he won't check up on her! We will probaby hear somehting tomorrow! maybe..I SUGGESTED she take her name off as someone else had said 

I have a carseat and stroller, blankets too. I dont have baby clothes though. I can go get diapers and stuff if she needs them too. 

I just checked pys I did not see her post anymore, maybe she took it down 

CP if its not a scam let me know I can hook her up with some baby clothes from the store Are u gonna sell em before she gets there? lol j/k 

I can go get diapers and stuff if she needs them too. I can also get a pack of diapers and wipes for her. She will also need things like rubbing alcohol for his umbilical and cotton swabs as well. Baby wash formula(if she does not plan BF) Practical things ya know. That most first time mothers do not think to stock up on.