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My Ex-husband Vandalized my car last night....

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PrestigeWorldwide --- 11 years ago -

doesnt matter now he already took them off lol

Well if you get another sticker with your hubs, that's how you can later remove it :) 

ALS MommaKitty --- 11 years ago -

If he's in a weapon-centered MOS the Lautenberg Act will come into play and until this issue is settled he will be barred from training with weapons/touching/anything having to do with weapons since this will be a dometic violence RO if it goes through (unless he doesn't work with them at all).

Exactly :) 

MrsCrystalS --- 11 years ago -

I dont want to get him in that much trouble. I just want him to leave me alone.

With everything that he has done to me during our marriage he got away with it. and even though i have stopped responding to his emails and ive asked him NUMEROUS times to never email me again and to just leave me alone he still has to do things like this. 

Scrappy --- 11 years ago -

Sounds like he thinks you are illegally getting on base with decals you used when you were married to him. Just tell the man you are remarried and your decals are legal. 

SinCityGRL --- 11 years ago -

Do you have children together? If not i would change my number so he could no longer text. I would also change my email or block him. Make it so there is no way that he can get in contact with you.

This x1000!!! If he can't get in touch with you....you'd be a bit better off. As long as he can "get you" (Contact) he will continue. If you don't want to change the number, contact your cell provider...they have programs that can block numbers for a price (I think ATT its 4.99 a month...I think its called Smart Limits or something...used for children, but works just the same).
By not changing your number/email, you are allowing him to "get to you"

Best of luck. I'd nail his arse to the wall. I don't give a hoot about my exhusbands career when it comes to stalking/harrassing/vandalizing my stuff. He can stick it where the sun don't shine. Show him you can stand up for yourself ;) 

MrsCrystalS --- 11 years ago -

i think he's scared... he just called my work threatening me. Saying he didn't do anything, and now he's gonna sue me for a check that bounced that he had to pay a very long time ago and it was only for 100.
(ok and that was wrong, but he wasn't paying me BAH that he was receiving for himself so honestly $100 out of 2100 that he was getting wasnt that bad.)


He called and told the receptionist "he was calling from Camp Pendleton and he needed to talk to one of the employees or my boss"

I talked to him and he was telling me if i didnt pay him he was going to my boss, I told him that he's just scared and this has nothing to do with the money but that he's using it against me because I filed the police report and they must of contacted him.

My boss knows all about him she's read some of the texts and emails because i showed her them to get her opinion of what to do.

but he said if i dont drop it or pay him he's taking me to court... he knows court scares the hell out of me.

ALL of this was on the phone so i cant use it against him... ugh seriously. this boy is going to give me a emotional break down. 

Just Sayin --- 11 years ago -

So why are you on the PU and not calling the police? 

catalinawinemixerr --- 11 years ago -

I second the camera thing if you can afford it? Then you can catch him if he tries vandalizing your car again. I would also cut off ALL communication since you didn't mention kids I assume you don't have any together, and the divorce is final there is NO reason to be communicating together. Move, change your email, and phone number. 

MrsCrystalS --- 11 years ago -

ive already filed a report and i left a message with the officer letting him know what happened just now.

I have changed my email, and he some how finds it (he's a data guy), Im moving this month, Im changing my number soon.

but my work number isnt something i can change lol, which is probably why he called it knowing he would def get ahold of me to scare me. 

CourtesyFlush --- 11 years ago -

Exactly. Change all info and you won't give them the opportunity anymore. 

CourtesyFlush --- 11 years ago -

Your work can call the police on him if he keeps calling and harassing you. 

catalinawinemixerr --- 11 years ago -

Weird. How would being a data guy make him find your email? You can get any old new yahoo account. 

IrishMaiden --- 11 years ago -

Bounced Check Laws in California

It says he has to write a request for the money with a certified letter, and he has to have proof of the bounced check. Let him take you to court. He sounds like an idiot. 

CourtesyFlush --- 11 years ago -

Its an empty threat. Sounds like he knows how to scare you. 

CourtesyFlush --- 11 years ago -

If he wants to take you to court over $100 and waste WAY more in court fees let him. He sounds like an major douche. 

IrishMaiden --- 11 years ago -

That and the statute of limitations for misdemeanor theft (under $400) is one year. 

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