so last night the hubby and i where in the shower and he asked me if i was going to start running with him. i said yeah when i can keep up cuz right now my friend ash and i just jog. my hubby is infentry and that boy can run for ever and still not feel like stoping. i asked him why he asked and he said cuz i ws hoping you would so you could lose that weight you have gained. i was so mad i just got out of the shower. sure i am not the size 4 i was in high school but i think he should love me no matter what right?? i mean i want to lose the weight i liked when i was a size 4 but i am not in high school anymore always on the go and doing sports  

Me=Jaw to floor. I would've kicked him in his soapy balls. What an a$$. 

That was just plain insensitive! :( Im sorry he said that to you. 

Me=Jaw to floor. I would've kicked him in his soapy balls. What an a$$ I agree, I'd a dropped him and then told him to crawl his way downstairs to the couch. 

What's unusal about that comment? My husband says shit like that to me all the time. Sometimes I wonder if I should just push him down the stairs and claim it was an accident. 

and last night after we got ready to go to bed he is like are we going to have sex tonight.....i was like umm no no we are not sorry you kinda turn me off when you say i am fat you a$$. he was all i thought we where trying to have a baby....yeah well i think we can go one night not having sex 

I wonder if I should just push him down the stairs and claim it was an accident. i feel the same way 

What he said was mean and very insensitive. But if you noticed your husband was putting on some lbs, what would you say to him? I am not taking his side, I am just playing devil's advocate. Please don't get mad. 

haha you should of said Umm No Obv my fat bothers you so when its gone then we might lol.. 

Your husband doesn't make any sense. 

I telll him "umm You gonna end up doing that fat program" he looks at me like look at yourself in the mirror lol.. 

I don't think i'd be upset i mean do you think he was trying to be mean? Sounds like he's up to helping you loose weight. I call my hubby out all the time when he puts on the lbs. 

I would have punched him...I don't blame you. Now that my husband has put on some weight its pay back..lol 

I am just playing devil's advocate. Please don't get mad. i see where you are coming from. but that boy will never get fat. lol but i would say it as nice as i could not just hey you need to run with me so you lose weight 

Your husband doesn't make any sense. how dose he not make sense 

Yeah they don't understand or get what it's like. I have to start keeping clothing in the house for him b/w size 32 and 36 because he can gain and drop weight as needed. He literally lost like 20lbs in a month, I swear. 

He chose the wrong time to say anything. They were in the shower so she's all out there. I would've felt a sudden rush of insecurity. Foom cold shower on him and hop out. That'd be me. 

i see where you are coming from. but that boy will never get fat. lol but i would say it as nice as i could not just hey you need to run with me so you lose weight I'm glad you understood where I was coming from, I wouldn't take a member of the male species' side! haha. My friend's husband told her in VERY mean ways she needed to drop some pounds, it was very heartbreaking to see her upset about it, I couldn't believe some of the things he said to her. My husband is too chicken sh!t to tell me to loose weight, haha, but I don't need him to remind me and hopefully he knows that too! 

He chose the wrong time to say anything. They were in the shower so she's all out there. I would've felt a sudden rush of insecurity. Foom cold shower on him and hop out. That'd be me. I know. :( 

he has bad timing but think about how much weight you have gained since the two of you have been together. i am guilty about going about it the wrong way. it does hurt when some you love makes a comment that you feel is a personal attack. there is no nice way to tell someone they are heavy. 

there is no nice way to tell someone they are heavy. heavy would be my friend deanna who is 230 i am 135 thats not heavy to me.i am just not a skinny lil b!tch like i used to be 

135 POUNDS IS HE CRAZY?! I would give anything to be that weight again! 

eeekkk! tell him to shut his big mouth and go around looking on base, then come back and see if he has the same impression of your size.. not bashing ANYONE by ANY means, just 135 is small. better yet, tell him to come here, ill slap him silly for you! 

i am 135 I would DIE to be 135...I can't believe he'd say that. what an insensitive a-hole he was being.. 

I bet if I sat at your house with my naked fat self he would shut his mouth! (not brave enough) 

Im sorry, but MEN dont say stuff like that! ::sending you ladies love:: Anyone want me to kick their hubby in the balls, PM. I can do it stealth style like at night or something while they sleep! lol jk 

I can do it stealth style like at night or something while they sleep! lol jk lol 

Anyone want me to kick their hubby in the balls, PM. You can kick mine :D Anytime! And the rest of you, you can practice on mine too! hahaha 

You can kick mine :D Anytime! well, i *do* owe you one... haha 

this is me back in june. when my family and i where getting pictures done.